What defines this new-age millennial thing called “Crush”? Is it the initial stage of a relationship? Is it love? Well, when you develop a brief yet intense fondness for someone, often at time unattainable, that’s crush for you!
It’s such a surreal romantic feeling, the happy you and the dreamy you! When you are infatuated with someone, you always find a reason to believe that this is exactly the person for you. But don’t mix love with crush… You can have many crushes but not many love!
Well now that you have established that the cupid’s struck and you like someone dearly! I know, all you do the whole day, is keep thinking about them. Moreover, not only you are lost in your world but are unnecessarily smiling and giggling away. Swept away by the “infatuation” wave, you now wish to approach the one you like, but aren’t sure how.
Fret not! Here are a few pointers which will help you in wooing your crush out and will almost always guarantee a YES!
Don’t be a chaser or worst case, a Stalker!
Be open, approach positively but then have the guts to take NO in a good spirit. Don’t be persistent! Nothing switches off anybody more than a clingy person!
While there are a few who love the friendly chase and act pricey. If so, play along with the game and woo your “crush”. There’s this element of surprise in a person that works, always.
Find out what’s common between you two –
As much as mutual friends play a major role in getting to know and meet, similarly do common interests. It’s always fun and easy to talk about something that you two share and love. Be it music genres, hobbies, places, food anything at all. Such common interests help you establish a common ground and take up from there, and eventually break the ice…
Show your ‘fun’ side –
What we look for in a relationship is fun! Smiles and humour galore! Know how and what to talk. Nobody looks for a boring or mundane poker-faced partner! If you belong in that category, then pull up your game or forget your chances of getting a YES.
Be confident, not unsure and insecure –
Be You! Self-confident and sure about what you want. Everyone has a past and if you have been rejected by a few, don’t lose hope. You may be unsure and insecure of one or many things in you. Well now’s the time, you like someone enough to ask out. It’s all new! Drop your insecurities and move on to find love!
Respect the Boundaries & Play by the rules –
Not everything in a relationship is about ‘bed and beyond’. Respect the person’s wishes and boundaries. Neither be horny or corny! Both are turn-offs! Also no big not-required gestures or cheesy lines. If you take this route, there’s no coming back, a complete NO-NO!
Simply, don’t take rush into starting a relationship! Take it slow and one day at a time.
Timing is definitely everything! Be poised, confident and act as the circumstances ask for!
Go find your “one”!
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